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344 North Main Street
Doylestown, PA 18901
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344 N. Main Street
Doylestown, PA 18901
Phone: 215-348-8930
Fax: 215-348-0680

Mary "Sitte" Abidiwan-Lupo

May 27, 1956 January 14, 2020

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Obituary for Mary "Sitte" Abidiwan-Lupo

Mary Abidiwan-Lupo of Doylestown, PA passed away on Tuesday, January 14, 2020 at her home in Doylestown, PA. She was 63.

Born in Nutley, NJ to the late Joseph and Margaret (Knuckley) Abidiwan. Mary resided in Belleville, NJ and Warminster, PA before moving to Doylestown, PA.

Mary spent her life dedicated to her family and friends. She was married to her devoted husband for 40 years and raised four kids. She operated her own massage therapy business for over 20 years to support her family and loved helping others. Mary had a life long passion for music, gardening, love, and friendship. Her greatest joy in life was spending time with her five grandkids and was often seen at participating in their karate, swim, soccer, and ballet classes right alongside them.

She was the beloved wife to the late Carl Lupo; adoring mother to Jennifer Jones (Tony), Jamie Abidiwan-Lupo, Jeremy Abidiwan-Lupo (Priya De Souza), Jodie Abidiwan-Lupo (Trevor Munson); dear sister of Michael Rogers (Alicia); and doting grandmother (Sitte) of Trevor, Miles, Avani, Felix and Theodore.

A Celebration of Mary's life will be held at Chambers 19, 19 North Main Street, Doylestown, PA 18901 on Sunday, January 19, 2020 from 5:30-8:00 pm.

A viewing will be held at the Varcoe-Thomas Funeral Home, 344 North Main Street, Doylestown, PA 18901 on Monday, January 20, 2020 from 10:00-11:30 am, with a service to begin at 11:30 am.

Interment will follow at 1:30 pm on Monday in Washington Crossing National Cemetery, Newtown, PA.

In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts to the YMCA Doylestown Branch, 2500 Lower State Road, Doylestown, PA 18901 or would be appreciated.

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  • Visitation

    Sunday, January 19, 2020 | 5:30pm - 8:00pm
    Celebration of Life - Chambers 19 Restaurant
    19 North Main Street
    Doylestown, PA
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    Sunday, January 19, 2020
    5:30pm - 8:00pm
    The family will be holding a Celebration of Life for Mary on Sunday prior to the Visitation & Service on Monday morning.
  • Second Visitation

    Monday, January 20, 2020 | 10:00am - 11:30am
    Varcoe-Thomas Funeral Home
    344 North Main Street
    Doylestown, PA
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    Monday, January 20, 2020
    10:00am - 11:30am
    The family will receive their friends at the funeral home from 10:00-11:30 am prior to the service beginning at 11:30 am.
  • Service

    Monday, January 20, 2020 | 11:30am
    Varcoe-Thomas Funeral Home
    344 North Main Street
    Doylestown, PA
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email |
    Monday, January 20, 2020
  • Interment

    Monday, January 20, 2020 | 1:30pm
    Washington Crossing National Cemetery
    830 Highland Road
    Newtown, Pennsylvania
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    Monday, January 20, 2020

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Joan Dowlin

I have known Mary for over 30 years. I met her when I received massages from her when she worked for a wellness center. She remained my masseuse until the very end. I received a massage at her house last Friday. We took Reiki together. She and Carl painted my house. I knew their children when they were young kids. I pet sit for Mary and all of her children. We were close friends who loved to talk about all subjects in life. I’m still in shock especially after Carl’s recent passing. I will miss her terribly. She was a wonderful, loving friend to me. God bless her soul.
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Manmohan Bryant MD

We are so grateful for the years of love and friendship Mary and Carl shared with us.
My wife, Linda, and I were looking at photos taken with them over the years. We shared celebrations, holidays, personal growth, laughter and playfulness, travel, and some ups and downs. All of it a wonderful gift.
Most know how much Mary loved music. With Mary on her wonderful guitar, Carl's percussion, Linda's tambourine , and my drumming, we sang and shared beautiful and powerful music with many people in many places.
Her friends also know she was a very courageous person. It was only because I asked/begged her that she took the risk of doing something very new to her. With her as office manager, together we started my Family Medicine practice. She remained as my office manager, caring for patients and keeping the office on track for over 8 years.
Mary, You made a difference in our lives. We love you and wish you and Carl peace wherever you are.
Manmohan & Linda
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Melinda Callis

We know your family is in pain right now but you’d only feel such loss because she and Carl were so awesome. We send our deepest condolences and love. Gerry DeLuca & Melinda Callis, Gabriel DeLuca & Luis Gomez.
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